Ladies, something about good men: they really want to know you by your personality & character, above looks & all. When you give too much attention to how you look on the outside, & not to your character & personality, it tends to distract the guys from knowing & interacting well with the real you. It’s great when one is asked to describe a lady & the first few things that come to his mind are not her dressing or makeup, but rather the great attributes of her character & personality.
I’m not saying don’t dress well; just let the main attraction be the inner you. Don’t depend on your looks, hair, etc to make you attractive.